By Sean Fagan
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A hazel wood fire (Photo: Sean Fagan).

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Last week, I went to the woods to light a fire for my 22 year old niece who recently died in a tragic accident.

I wanted to make a small, symbolic gesture to honour her memory.

She was a wonderful young woman and my bereaved sister will never be the same again.

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As I sat before the fire remembering my niece - the light started to fade.

Before I knew it, the woods were veiled in darkness.

Eventually the fire died out.

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I’m generally not one for giving life advice but to recycle an oft-clichéd but true sentiment – value those people in your life who are dear to you - while they are still alive.

Life is a lot more fragile that we care to admit.

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I hope this post will go some way to raising awareness for bereaved parents that have lost a son or daughter.

In the future I will be making a more significant contribution to the memory of my niece and to my bereaved sister - and to parents that have lost a son or daughter.

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I put this post up mostly for two reasons - to honour the memory of my niece...

...and to remind us all that life is fragile - and in the context of bushcraft - to get out there and have some great outdoor adventures with the people that matter to you.

To any parent out there reading this post that  has lost a son or daughter - you have my deepest sympathies.